@Drunkendude,
Welcome aboard and congrats.
So, where are you located? Might be a fellow rider near by.
As you are a n00by, I'll add my 2c worth also:
You may have noticed that the majority of riders on this board are old far.....uh, seasoned riders. One or two may have been lucky over the years, but most cared about safety and riding skills...and most here have owned several bikes over the years.
As
@shane has emphasized,
get the safety course under your belt, hit a parking lot to practice, and think like you are invisible to everyone on the street. Doesn't mean you'll be 100% safe, but your chances of having many safe miles will be increased. For most of us, riding is a passion. I'm sure I speak for most here when I say we want to share it.
Riding is a personal thing. We give our advice, but after you try on some helmets, gloves, jackets, & boots, you'll start to find the ones you prefer because they fit you and not us. All our heads, torsos, & feet are not shaped the same (fortunately!).
Continue to ask questions if you have them. Some of us have strong opinions that we voice rather powerfully at times. Don't be offended...we are that way because we care!!